Navigating the adolescent years can be challenging for both parents and their teenage children. Misunderstandings, conflicts, and communication barriers often create a gap that can be difficult to bridge. To try and recognise these challenges, Ladder has developed the Surviving Adolescence program, aimed at fostering better understanding and communication between parents and their teens. This new pilot program provides parents with the tools and insights needed to support their children effectively during this critical stage of development.

To gain a deeper insight into our program's impact, we spoke with a recent parent graduate and their young person, who both shared the positive changes they’ve observed in their relationship as a result of the program.

Parent’s reflection:

I originally decided to join the parent program to get some help with how I could communicate better with my teen and avoid some of the arguments that were constantly occurring.

The program has given me more coping skills and a better understanding of how the teenage brain works, especially how it is still under development or construction. The program was fantastic at explaining this and teaching me how my teen ticks.

Some of the key takeaways were just how much pressure my young person is under and how much they deal with things like social media and just trying to belong with their peers. The complex emotions and big feelings they experience were also eye-opening.

I have been able to apply the communication skills learned during the program to diffuse and de-escalate conversations that would have turned into arguments previously. This alone means that we have less conflict and are connecting in a more positive way, enjoying each other’s company again.

I have a better understanding of what they are going through and the challenges they face. Also, the big changes happening in their development and how I can support them.

Less conflict has us actually enjoying each other’s company again. We are making time for conversations, and I feel understood and really positive about how we discuss things and work through problems.

I feel more positive and calmer. The program provided a safe space where I didn’t feel alone as the other participants were dealing with similar issues. It was amazing to be able to share our stories and feel heard.

Young person’s reflection:

There is less arguing and yelling. Mum listens and tries to understand without jumping to the worst conclusion. We are able to talk about things and come up with solutions, and I feel like Mum is happier. We are having fun again and I definitely feel more supported and heard.

I would recommend this program. Mum enjoyed being able to spend time with the other parents and was happier when she got home.

The Surviving Adolescence program has been a transformative experience for both parents and teenagers. By providing tools and understanding, it has helped families navigate the adolescent years, fostering stronger relationships and more effective communication. 

The program has also highlighted the importance of community connection with our parents in Gippsland. Through the program, they have been able to share and express themselves in a safe and comfortable environment and to realise that they are not alone. 

To learn more about the Surviving Adolescence program, please click here.